In life there are many things that needed to be done... one of the important element in life is Relationships... 'Relationship with family' 'Relationship with Love partners' or maybe 'Relationship with friends'... The truth is that many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much or disappointment took place.
Love is everything..that is what i used to believe... However the only Love that can be everything comes under only one condition that is 'Unconditioned LOVE'... However, in many occasion in life, the Love that we give to the others are Love with condition... ie, People who are in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after being in a relationship or after getting marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that
"It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, if we holds high expectation on wanting to change our partner's character, it will cause disappointment and unpleasantness at some point in one's life. As the greater the expectation, thus higher the disappointment... just like expectation on friendship... We will perceive someone as your best friend throughout our journey, however they may disappoint us by not showing APPRECIATION or being IGNORANCE... In life we need friends, however GOOD FRIENDS are hard to find...Therefore, It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.
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